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A DEEPER LOOK INTO MY INNER WORLD


On providing joy and pleasure during difficult times; The importance of erotic labor
Oh 2026, you came in violently shaking many of us to our core and pulled back the veil of privilege so many were comfortable hiding behind. You've also shown us the ways community can gather, self sustain, and protect one another when we decide to organize (shout out to Minneappolis and Los Angeles). While there is hope and something incredible about watching people band together in such ways it has been heartbreaking and nearly unbearable to witness why this is so needed. It


Sex Work is Work....But What Exactly Do Providers Do?
Some of us call ourselves providers, but what exactly is it that we are providing? What is the work ? How is it work? Despite what broader society may claim we offer much more beyond the realm of the physical. With the right connection seeing a sex worker can be therapeutic, at times even life altering, and as much as we get blamed for destroying relationships I know I have personally strengthened the relationships of couples who have hired me. While hiring us can be powerf


Suicide Loss, Mental Health, and How Sex Work Saved My Life
We usually hear about the ways sex work can erode away at one's sanity - and let's be clear this work can be challenging, triggering, and...


Tips for Dating (and Staying Safe) as a Sex Worker
I’ve been a sex worker most of my adult life, because of this navigating the nuances of civvie life and the sex industry is truly all I know. I have had a plethora of wounds and wins come up around dating. I’m not going to sugarcoat it; dating as a sex worker can feel like a landmine. Between being met with judgment, insults, being outed (or fetishized), or having folks act out violently toward you - navigating whorephobia in a society which does not respect the work we do ca
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